failed faith.

By Kathy Escobar / June 8, 2016 / 9 Comments

Well it’s Failure Week here on the blog. If you are just joining us, so far we had a short overview and focused on failed parenting. Today I want to talk […]

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the kids are alright.

By Kathy Escobar / May 24, 2016 / 13 Comments

If you’re friends with me on Facebook, your Newsfeed has been clogged with pictures of my daughter’s college graduation. Oh, what a beautiful weekend we had in New York City […]

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out in the desert.

By Kathy Escobar / March 7, 2016 / 12 Comments

One of the things I sometimes hear about people who unravel their faith and end up on the outside of all they once knew is that they are being “rebellious, […]

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God's got us.

By Kathy Escobar / January 25, 2016 / 13 Comments

A chunk of months ago I had the most amazing conversation with a reader of Faith Shift about the fear involved in Unraveling once tightly held beliefs. It’s a long […]

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"um, well, it depends on what you mean by 'Christian'"

By Kathy Escobar / December 7, 2015 / 10 Comments

In the earlier days of my faith, knowing who was and wasn’t a “Christian” was a big deal to me. There was something attached to it that was comforting, familiar, […]

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important words from parents of LGBQT kids: what hurts, what helps

By Kathy Escobar / October 19, 2015 / 7 Comments

I had the privilege of spending a few days with an online support group for moms of LGBQT kids of all ages. What a gift! These are amazing women of […]

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Christian show or tell?

By Kathy Escobar / September 29, 2015 / 16 Comments

I recently had a brief and good but challenging conversation with a friend about Christian belief. It wasn’t a long drawn out one, but as they were explaining the ins […]

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"but God says…"

By Kathy Escobar / September 9, 2015 / 24 Comments

People who know me well know I have some very clear pet peeves. Some are related to people gulping when they eat (ask my husband) or kids not answering their phone […]

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rebuilding: finding life again.

By Kathy Escobar / June 3, 2015 / 4 Comments

For the past 7 years now I have been writing about my own struggles with faith and doubt and church and have met so many awesome, sincere, wise, brave men […]

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severing: some do, some don't.

By Kathy Escobar / June 1, 2015 / 11 Comments

Oh, how I want to spend the next month just unpacking Unraveling, but the truth is that is what the book is for! There are also all kinds of blog posts […]

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