2.25.07 from xgcw….disapproval

By Kathy Escobar / February 25, 2007 / 5 Comments

standing up against disapproval is one of the most difficult things to do when we are “good christian women.” disapproval from others somehow means that we are not doing a […]

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1.27.07 from xgcw….do you identify?

By Kathy Escobar / January 12, 2007 / 6 Comments

note 7.25.08:  this is from a blog i started last year in 2007 for a group of “ex good christian women” friends.  it used to just be a private blog […]

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12.5.06 from the refuge blog….Equality

By Kathy Escobar / December 5, 2006 / 0 Comments

Christmas. Everyone responds to this time of year differently. For some, it’s a great season filled with food and family and happy memory-making. For others, it’s a time of dread. […]

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11.7.06 from the refuge blog – Kind Beats Right

By Kathy Escobar / November 7, 2006 / 0 Comments

The other day I was driving down the road in the lovely suburbs of Arvada and I felt like someone kicked me in the stomach. An old van pulled into […]

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9.20.06 from the refuge blog… Is there a Doctor in the Church?

By Kathy Escobar / September 20, 2006 / 1 Comment

I am a broken person. I do things I don’t want to do, I struggle with things I think I should be “over” by now, I don’t love the people […]

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8.9.06 from the refuge blog…My Love-Hate Thing with Community

By Kathy Escobar / August 9, 2006 / 1 Comment

We’ve been spending the past few weeks talking about community at The Refuge. Everyone who knows me knows I love community. I love relationships. I love people connecting with God […]

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7.28.06 from the refuge blog…War Wounds

By Kathy Escobar / July 28, 2006 / 1 Comment

I have skin cancer. Don’t worry. It’s not serious, but I had to have this thing on my chest removed a few weeks ago. 8 stitches. It’s ugly and I’m […]

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7.23.06 from the refuge blog – "I Believe in You"

By Kathy Escobar / July 23, 2006 / 0 Comments

Last week, my best friend Elaine sent me a donation to help fund my role at The Refuge. Jotted at the bottom of the sheet she only wrote four words: […]

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