because i like to make people feel better about themselves

By Kathy Escobar / May 17, 2010 / 10 Comments

i am not a very neat and organized person.  actually, i am organized (i know some of you are chuckling right now, but i really do know where almost everything […]

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actually, the grass is greener

By Kathy Escobar / May 11, 2010 / 18 Comments

i wrote this post last week but in all of the hubub of jose & i’s crazy trip to kuwait & bahrain never posted it.  sometimes that happens–the moment comes […]

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the order of the brokenhearted

By Kathy Escobar / March 8, 2010 / 4 Comments

even though i posted a few days early for international women’s day with the power of being wanted, i want to remind everyone that today, march 8th, is officially it […]

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the power of being wanted

By Kathy Escobar / March 4, 2010 / 30 Comments

this monday march 8th is international women’s day. i’ve written a post in honor of it the past 2 years (you can read them here & here) & really wanted […]

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the battle against the wolves

By Kathy Escobar / November 10, 2009 / 10 Comments

“i am i the middle of a forest.  there are no paths.  i have no companions.  and i hear wolves.” – angela, a pastor & aspiring actress in the film […]

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serenity & courage

By Kathy Escobar / September 18, 2009 / 8 Comments

God grant me the serenity To accept the things I cannot change; Courage to change the things I can; And wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a […]

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By Kathy Escobar / August 3, 2009 / 28 Comments

i have been thinking a lot about how much i’ve changed over the years.  there are so many things i used to think, believe, be so sure of, that i […]

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out of the darkness: the "A" word–abortion

By Kathy Escobar / July 27, 2009 / 26 Comments

it’s summer, and i’m definitely down to posting once a week at best; that’s plenty for right now.  i have been in the midst of typical refuge nuttiness, which i […]

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creating containers for beauty, justice, community & healing

By Kathy Escobar / May 18, 2009 / 4 Comments

this past week was a really wild one. i know i say that a lot, but sometimes there are weeks that stick out above others as truly over-the-top.  this week […]

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goodly parenting (yep, that's two o's)

By Kathy Escobar / October 6, 2008 / 11 Comments

my friend brian at the cheek of God is doing a guest posting series on parenting.  he’s been a faithful carnival commenter & i am so thankful to have crossed […]

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