hope prevails and humans are incredible.

By Kathy Escobar / January 1, 2022 / 4 Comments

Oh 2022, I think we’re all a bit scared of you….but this morning as I crawl out of bed to a yard blanketed with desperately needed snow (and a trampoline […]

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“You can’t change the world, but you can change someone’s world” – Jared Luke Escobar, 11/11/99 ~ 10/28/19

By Kathy Escobar / October 27, 2021 / 3 Comments

Two years ago tomorrow our wild and beautiful Jared left this earth. There truly are no words to describe the feeling of the depth of this loss, and as we […]

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By Kathy Escobar / December 31, 2020 / 1 Comment

When Faith Shift entered into the world in 2014 (!) I had a few core things I wanted to communicate—that we weren’t crazy and were weren’t alone in our faith […]

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some things i haven’t said.

By Kathy Escobar / October 21, 2020 / 6 Comments

Next week marks one year without our wild and beautiful and creative and passionate and incredible son here on this earth. At the mom’s grief group that I’ve been going […]

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#griefhasnorules – mother’s day mourning

By Kathy Escobar / May 10, 2020 / 2 Comments

Mother’s Day. I could feel it coming this week but didn’t have a lot of time to let the magnitude kick in too early. I’ve been busy with The Refuge […]

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“i see you. i hear you. i’m with you.”

By Kathy Escobar / April 28, 2020 / 1 Comment

Five and a half weeks ago I was supposed to be in the Pacific Northwest for two Practicing events in Portland and Washington. I was so excited because not only […]

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pain, period.

By Kathy Escobar / April 11, 2020 / 7 Comments

“Our brokenness is always lived and experienced as highly personal, intimate, and unique. I am deeply convinced that each human being suffers in a way no other human being suffers.” […]

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grief & global pandemics & extenuating circumstances

By Kathy Escobar / March 20, 2020 / 2 Comments

If we were together in real life right now the first thing I’d want to do is give you a hug. In less than a week, hugs have become a […]

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