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#griefhasnorules – mother’s day mourning

By Kathy Escobar / May 10, 2020 / 2 Comments

Mother’s Day. I could feel it coming this week but didn’t have a lot of time to let the magnitude kick in too early. I’ve been busy with The Refuge […]

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“i see you. i hear you. i’m with you.”

By Kathy Escobar / April 28, 2020 / 1 Comment

Five and a half weeks ago I was supposed to be in the Pacific Northwest for two Practicing events in Portland and Washington. I was so excited because not only […]

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the practice of grieving and living at the same time.

By Kathy Escobar / February 7, 2020 / 11 Comments

When you cry every single day for 100 days, it’s definitely hard on the soul, especially when you look toward the next 100 days and realize that it’s just the […]

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mother mary.

By Kathy Escobar / December 24, 2019 / 5 Comments

“When I find myself in times of trouble, Mother Mary comes to meSpeaking words of wisdom, let it beAnd in my hour of darkness she is standing right in front […]

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mortality.

By Kathy Escobar / August 17, 2019 / 2 Comments

Another friend of mine is dying. In the past 4 months I’ve gone to 4 memorial services, 3 for long-time friends and one that we officiated for person who was […]

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#BecauseOfRHE

By Kathy Escobar / May 7, 2019 / 3 Comments

“The work…is to carry grief in one hand and gratitude in the other, and to be stretched large by them.” ~ Frances Weller* All who knew, read, or heard Rachel […]

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no ragrets.

By Kathy Escobar / January 2, 2019 / 1 Comment

If you saw the movie We’re the Millers you might remember the scene of the kid who has a big tattoo across this neck that says “No Ragrets” in capital […]

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epic fail and voices to listen to.

By Kathy Escobar / October 30, 2018 / 1 Comment

I spent last week in North Carolina for some special events in several different communities (a few pictures and stories are on Facebook and Instagram and then speaking about Faith Shift and […]

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learning these kinds of things at church.

By Kathy Escobar / September 10, 2018 / 0 Comments

Every summer at The Refuge we do a modified Sunday night format called “Summer Camp.” The idea is to focus on practical skills, community building, and a break from our […]

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narcissists are gonna narcissist.

By Kathy Escobar / September 3, 2018 / 8 Comments

I haven’t written much this summer, even though I didn’t take an official break like I have in the past. It’s been a huge season for our family, with my […]

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