By Kathy Escobar / May 8, 2015 / 13 Comments

The other day I made up a new word without even knowing it. I was hanging out with some of my favorite people in Denver at our spiritual formation-support-group-hanging-with-people-who-understand-how-hard-this-work-in-the-trenches-is, casually […]

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lifting heads, straightening backs.

By Kathy Escobar / March 3, 2015 / 13 Comments

Sometimes I get calls from women asking for help to get out of an abusive relationship. Skittish, scared, and filled with shame, they reach out and share their story. It’s […]

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"i just don't see how he could do that" & some thoughts on abuse

By Kathy Escobar / February 10, 2014 / 21 Comments

**warning: this post is about sexual abuse (and emotional, physical, and spiritual too) and so if you are extra sensitive to this topic, please know there could be possible triggers. […]

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restored dignity won't drop out of the sky

By Kathy Escobar / November 13, 2013 / 3 Comments

this past friday i spoke at a large gathering here in denver called simply jesus. i was only there for the first part because of kids’ football games, but i […]

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equality matters, post #328

By Kathy Escobar / November 6, 2013 / 18 Comments

  yesterday my lovely and gifted blog friend sarah bessey’s new book was released. it’s called Jesus feminist, and i hope that you will buy a copy and let the […]

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formation friday: enneagram love (and hate)

By Kathy Escobar / October 26, 2013 / 46 Comments

i know so many people despise personality tools. they hate how they put us in boxes and label us and limit us.  i get that, but i think they can […]

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formation friday: our inner pharisee

By Kathy Escobar / June 22, 2013 / 15 Comments

once in a while it’s fun to focus in on one topic longer than a post, and i am glad for the different responses to “healing the divides” week; if […]

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corrective experiences

By Kathy Escobar / May 28, 2013 / 26 Comments

“you’re here to be light, bringing out the God-colors in the world. God is not a secret to be kept. we’re going public with this, as public as a city […]

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there are lots of ways to mother.

By Kathy Escobar / May 11, 2013 / 11 Comments

it’s mother’s day weekend in the USA, the time where a bunch of women feel special and extra-loved, and another group of women often don’t.  like so many other holidays, […]

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By Kathy Escobar / April 1, 2013 / 10 Comments

some synonyms for “resurrecting”:  awakening, bouncing back, breathing new life into, brightening, coming to life, making whole, overcoming, reawakening, recovering, rekindling, renewing, renovating, restoring, resuscitating, snapping out of it, springing […]

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