formation friday: no condemnation

By Kathy Escobar / January 12, 2013 / 9 Comments

years ago when my kids were little (and we only had a couple!) jose and i did scripture memory cards together as a spiritual practice (oh, those good old days). […]

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what it's like…to get sober from sexual addiction

By Kathy Escobar / November 8, 2012 / 5 Comments

one of the things i’m most passionate about is creating safe spaces for people to be honest about their real stories. church is supposed to be the safest place on […]

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breastfeeding hurts & other things we need to be more honest about.

By Kathy Escobar / June 25, 2012 / 57 Comments

* i wrote this post in march and never got around to posting it (i do that a lot).  it was after a conversation with an awesome mommy & ministry […]

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our fatal attraction

By Kathy Escobar / June 19, 2012 / 23 Comments

my husband jose has a theory about people.  he says that in some weird ways, “we’re always going back to our abusive dads, trying to please them.” he doesn’t mean […]

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By Kathy Escobar / May 31, 2012 / 105 Comments

i used to be a really good christian woman.  like one of the best.  i said the right things, did the right things, played nice.   the only problem was […]

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on becoming less divided.

By Kathy Escobar / May 23, 2012 / 54 Comments

“in an effort to not be a divisive woman, i became a divided woman” – pam hogeweide, at the unladylike: resisting the injustice of inequality in the church event at the […]

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be yourself, everyone else is taken.

By Kathy Escobar / May 18, 2012 / 12 Comments

* some of you have already read this post; it was a guest post for lisa colon delay’s blog series on spiritual guidance for bloggers in april.  i wanted to […]

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you is smart. you is kind. you is important.

By Kathy Escobar / February 27, 2012 / 19 Comments

yesterday was oscar night; i was traveling so didn’t get to enjoy the party but always play my part in seeing as many of the movies as i can.  so […]

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dying yet again.

By Kathy Escobar / February 22, 2012 / 12 Comments

“The process of conversion begins with genuine openness to change–to be open to the possibility that just as natural life evolves, so our spiritual life is evolving…. Each time you […]

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comfortable in our own skin

By Kathy Escobar / December 5, 2011 / 30 Comments

one of the things i’ve always tried to do here is write from my heart. to be as honest as i could.  to not worry about who would think what.  […]

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