why would i call a woman out of one oppressive relationship and into another?

By Kathy Escobar / July 10, 2009 / 21 Comments

i have been thinking a lot about the plight of the abused woman over the course of these past few months. i know so many women—in all shapes, sizes, religious […]

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can i at least have a cup of coffee with my slice of humble pie?

By Kathy Escobar / October 23, 2008 / 43 Comments

if you haven’t noticed by now, i have some pretty strong opinions about church-y stuff that can definitely come across as judgemental and harsh.  harsher than sometimes i want it […]

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seeing the swan

By Kathy Escobar / September 8, 2008 / 35 Comments

thanks my dear friends for understanding, for the love, the emails, the phone calls, the comments. i of course have felt encouraged in more ways than you know.  in case […]

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why sometimes i want to throw in the towel

By Kathy Escobar / September 3, 2008 / 45 Comments

i was about to post something else that i have been wanting to get up here, but i just couldn’t skip over where i’m at today & why i currently […]

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assuming is dangerous

By Kathy Escobar / August 5, 2008 / 34 Comments

well i had some other thoughts mulling around in my mind that will come later this week but i couldn’t resist sharing a different one today after a few emails […]

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this kind of jesus is too small for me

By Kathy Escobar / January 11, 2008 / 11 Comments

i know i sometimes sound like i am dissing the evangelical church and its rigid ways.  please know i recognize there are so many good, lovely, beautiful sincere people in […]

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7.7.07 from the refuge blog…no girl pastors allowed

By Kathy Escobar / July 17, 2007 / 11 Comments

a few days ago i got sucker punched for having ovaries, if you can believe that. i was in atlanta at the big christian retailers conference to launch a book […]

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3.19.07 from xgcw….get over it

By Kathy Escobar / March 19, 2007 / 5 Comments

i had someone tell me last week that i needed to “get over it.” i need to get over my hurt and pain related to the white, suburban evangelical megachurch […]

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