the world’s still weary.

By Kathy Escobar / November 23, 2022 / 0 Comments

Time is the strangest thing and when A Weary World: Reflections for a Blue Christmas came out in 2020, we were in the height of the pandemic before vaccinations and […]

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“i see you. i hear you. i’m with you.”

By Kathy Escobar / April 28, 2020 / 1 Comment

Five and a half weeks ago I was supposed to be in the Pacific Northwest for two Practicing events in Portland and Washington. I was so excited because not only […]

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grief & global pandemics & extenuating circumstances

By Kathy Escobar / March 20, 2020 / 2 Comments

If we were together in real life right now the first thing I’d want to do is give you a hug. In less than a week, hugs have become a […]

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the practice of grieving and living at the same time.

By Kathy Escobar / February 7, 2020 / 11 Comments

When you cry every single day for 100 days, it’s definitely hard on the soul, especially when you look toward the next 100 days and realize that it’s just the […]

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when Christmas is hard…

By Kathy Escobar / December 3, 2015 / 4 Comments

Blogging has been on the back-burner for me in this past season, and I miss you guys! I just haven’t been in the right head space to write, and honestly, […]

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embracing the rhythm of life's friday-saturday-sundays.

By Kathy Escobar / April 4, 2015 / 3 Comments

Today is Holy Saturday, the day between the death of Jesus and the resurrection. It’s the day that most of us want to skip over, the part that so rarely […]

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depression, a natural part of grief

By Kathy Escobar / June 26, 2014 / 2 Comments

in his book a grief observed CS lewis says this about grief: “no one ever told me that grief felt so like fear. i am not afraid, but the sensation […]

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bargaining: the what if's and if only's

By Kathy Escobar / June 25, 2014 / 12 Comments

we’re on day 3 of grief week and i have appreciated the comments & emails & thoughts that this has stirred up in different ways.  if you are just joining […]

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grief week: it starts with denial

By Kathy Escobar / June 23, 2014 / 17 Comments

well, exactly a year ago i said i was going to do a one week series called “grief week”, centered on the 5 stages of grief that can be part […]

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By Kathy Escobar / July 27, 2010 / 4 Comments

  “every time there are losses there are choices to make. you choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression, and resentment, or you choose to […]

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